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Aziz Ansari – Modern Romance (2015)

modern romanceThis was a big year for Aziz Ansari. In addition to this book, Ansari had two major Netflix hits, his stand up special Live at Madison Square Garden and his series, the critically acclaimed Master of None. While there is some overlap with all of his material, it’s not so much the same that it becomes redundant. Ansari is funny, there is no denying that, but he’s also incredibly perceptive and smart. Part of the reason I think he’s so funny is because his humour is so relatable; he speaks about situations that are totally commonplace for our generation, especially when it comes to dating.

To be completely honest I bought this book not really knowing much about it, expecting another comedian biography similar to Bossypants or Yes Please. I was surprised and then blown away at how much I enjoyed this hilarious and scholarly work. Ansari has teamed up with a social psychologist to conduct studies and then present findings about how technology has affected modern romance, and everything Ansari presents is very real and very true (the hilarity arises from Aziz’s quips and comments throughout the book – I read the whole thing in his voice). He looks at the rise of new dating apps and travels around the world examining the dating culture as it exists in other countries, something I almost wish he spent more time on.

The book is interesting, funny, and incredibly relevant. Ansari’s comedic sensibilities and level headedness has truly established him as one of the voices of this generation.

Best of 2015

Hi everyone,
After a long, (very long) hiatus due to technical difficulties I’m back with my list of the best books I read this year. I was trying to pick five, but just couldn’t narrow it down so there are 6 books on here. While I was trying to read 100 books in 2015 I only made it to 99 (so frustrating, but oh well), and so here I present to you my 6 favourite books that I read this year.

Jennifer Egan – A Visit From the Goon Squad
This was a great book because while it is a collection of short stories that can all be read individually, they are all still connected. Through her writing, Egan follows the lives of characters involved in the New York music scene from the 1960s to the present day. While exploring the obvious themes of “sex, drugs, and rock n’ roll,” Egan also asks the question of what does it mean to be happy? It is a question that is so fundamental to human existence and Egan’s book has the ability to speak to any audience.

David Sax – The Tastemakers
I’ve always been a huge fan of food writing and David Sax’s The Tastemakers did not disappoint. Exploring the world of master chefs and artisans bakeries Sax looks at how a food becomes a “trend” and traces the life cycle of food trends from their inception to their popularity and eventually their demise (RIP Fondue of the 70s). He draws really interesting connections (like connecting the rise of cupcakes 9/11) and writes in an interesting and accessible way. If you love food, I highly recommend this.

Rebecca Solnit – Men Explain Things To Me
As much as I enjoyed Roxanne Gay’s Bad Feminist and Lena Dunham’s Not That Kind of GirlMen Explain Things To Me, just spoke more to me, especially the titular essay. There is no denying that Rebecca Solnit is brilliant, and in her essays she exposes the ways that sexism can manifest itself in subtle ways. This essay gave rise to the term “mansplaining” which has become a part of our vocabulary. This year was a good year for women, but things like the attacks on planned parenthood or all the reports of workplace discrimination remind us how far we have to go. This collection of essays is important and well worth it.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche – Americanah 
As another notable feminist, Adiche gained notoriety this year for her TedTalk and subsequent publication Why We Should All Be Feminist. I chose to read this novel because I was unfamiliar with her work and am always a fan of a “fish out of water” story. Americanah follows Ifemelu and Obinze when they are young and in love in Nigeria and follows their respective immigrant experiences. This books was so much more than just an immigrant story, it was a story about love, between two people, between people and their country, and between the people we were and the people we’ve become. Adiche explores important questions about what it means to belong and the ideas we have surrounding identity. This novel made me laugh and cry, it broke my heart and caused me to reexamine my own life. It is powerful and thought provoking and wholly, totally, amazing.

Lev Grossman – The Magicians (Review Forthcoming)
This is kind of cheating because this is a trilogy as opposed to a single book, but I loved the whole thing. It’s fantasy without being fantastic; wondrous without being wonderful. Its a critique on established fantasy (Harry Potter, Chronicles of Narnia, Lord of the Rings) while also establishing itself as its own fantasy series, worthy of its own upcoming Showcase series. Essentially Grossman wants the reader to realize that not all problems can simply be solved my magic, and sometimes magic creates more problems than it solves. Imagine Harry Potter as an incredibly angsty and bored teenager (a la Holden Caulfield, not book 5 Harry) who gets sucked into a twisted dark version of Narnia and you have The Magicians. 

Aziz Ansari – Modern Romance (Review Forthcoming)
I LOVE Aziz Ansari, and my respect and admiration for him only grew after reading this book. To be completely honest I bought this book knowing nothing about it thinking it was just going to be another bio along the same lines as Bossypants or Yes Please. NOPE! Ansari teamed up with a social psychologist to write a non fiction, but still hilarious book about dating in the modern age. He explores how technology (Tinder, OkC, etc) has affected the way we meet people and fall in love and compares the dating cultures in different cultures. It was funny, smart, so interested, and actually relatable. There’s a lot of overlap between this book and Ansari’s netflix specials (Live at Madison Square Garden as well as Master of None), but it’s not too much so that it gets boring over overdone. Ansari is smart and he’s using his platform as a stand up comedian to talk about issues that he feels are important. The book is great and I can’t recommend it enough.